Fall/Winter
December 7, 2023
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Black Tie Optional: 3 Holiday Outfits

Well, my big event is this weekend! As you may recall, I’m attending my husband’s company holiday party in Chicago, and I’ve been ordering and trying cocktail dresses like it’s my job.

And I guess it sort of is. Considering that I’ve made a business of sharing my personal style online and helping everyday women like me figure out how to dress appropriately for any occasion so they can feel good about how they present themselves to the world, I feel a little extra pressure to “get it right” for this particular event.

Plus, I just think it’s fun to shop and come up with “the perfect outfit” for any big occasion. Which, I guess is how I ended up with a fashion blog!

Eliza J. Faux Fur Capelet (S) // Norma Kamali Strapless Midi Dress (M) (more sizes) // Sam Edelman Kia in Gold (8) (also at Nordstrom) // Loeffler Randall Rhinestone Baguette Bag // Ettika Crystal Chandelier Earrings // old Victoria Emerson bracelet c/o // J.Crew necklace

In my last Try-On Haul, where I first showed you these three dresses, someone suggested that I style each one as if I’m going to the event and share them with you all and let you vote.

Even if I didn’t have this blog, that is exactly what I would have done, and what I recommend you do whenever you’re trying to make a decision between several outfits. So here we are!

The Considerations

When planning an outfit for a big event – or for any reason, really, but especially when it’s an event where I will be meeting people I don’t know or don’t see very often – there are a few things I try to keep in mind.

First and foremost, who is my audience? Not that it really matters what people think of my outfit, but I feel more comfortable and confident when I feel like I fit in rather than stand out, so I always consider where I’m going and how others will be dressed.

The other thing I try to keep in the forefront of my mind are my personal style goals. I want my outfits to look modern, polished, and understated whether I’m going to the grocery store or to a gala.

It can be tempting to dress for a different style persona when attending an event that is outside of your typical routine, but it’s more important than ever to be true to yourself in those situations, so you feel comfortable and confident and authentic in how you present yourself.

And finally, I want to be comfortable. Meaning, I don’t want to wear something I will have to fuss with all night, and I would rather not be excessively hot or cold. Although for this event, I’m willing to sacrifice a little bit of comfort to love how I look.

The Contenders

After trying on many dresses, I’ve narrowed it down to three… actually, two, but I’m sharing all three finalists here today because I have the photos, so why not use them?

Plus, it gives us an opportunity to discuss how I decided to accessorize each option, which is something many women struggle with.

First up, this Norma Kamali Strapless Midi Dress.

Norma Kamali Strapless Midi Dress – 25% off (M) (more sizes avail) // Sam Edelman Kia in Gold (8) (also at Nordstrom) // Loeffler Randall Rhinestone Baguette Bag – 25% off // Ettika Crystal Chandelier Earrings // old Victoria Emerson bracelet c/o // J.Crew necklace

I love this dress for its simplicity and understated appeal, and it’s way more comfortable and figure-forgiving than it looks.

The fabric is high quality, and I feel like it looks like I just pulled a dress out of the back of my closet at the last minute and threw it on and made it look fabulous with modern accessories. You know, kind of like… Oh, this old thing??? LOL!

But that’s also partly what’s holding me back from wearing it. I know that I did buy this dress with this event in mind, and while I like it more than I ever imagined I would, it still seems rather plain in comparison to most of the other options I tried. And accessorizing it has turned out to be more challenging than the others.

First, let’s discuss my jewelry choices. I tried the dress both with and without a necklace, and I like it so much better with a necklace. I feel like this J.Crew square faceted crystal necklace set in gold tone metal is perfect. It’s oversized and modern, yet in keeping with the simplicity of the dress.

I also wore crystal and gold statement earrings that I feel coordinate with the earrings but don’t compete too awfully much, although I wonder if a simple stud would be better.

And then I grabbed an old mixed metal cuff out of my jewelry box, but I don’t love it. If I were going to wear this dress to the event this weekend, I would want to come up with something else.

Because it’s so bare on top, I wanted some type of covering that I could wear inside if I feel I need it, so I pulled this faux fur capelet out of my arsenal. I’ve had it for a few years, but it’s still available, and on sale at Bloomingdale’s!

I like the look in theory, but I wonder if it leans towards matronly, and I also find it awkward to keep on my shoulders.

When it’s fastened, it looks more like outerwear, and when it’s unfastened, it feels like it’s going to slide off at any moment.

I’m not sure I’d want to wear it inside, anyway, and if I don’t, then I’m back to feeling bare on top.

The other option is a sheer metallic wrap, and I just so happened to have this silver one from a wedding a few years back, so I tried it on to see if I like the look. (I’ve ordered the gold, so I have it if I decide I want it.)

I like that my shoulders are adequately covered, but it also covers up my waist and ruins the shapely silhouette that the dress provides, in a way that the fur wrap did not. Plus, the wrap is hard to keep in place, and I don’t want to be fussing with it all night.

Before I eliminate this option entirely, I’d like to try it tied the way the silver one is shown on the Nordstrom model and see if that works better, but I would still need another coat or jacket to wear to and from the event. It just seems like more trouble than it’s worth.

Okay, moving on! My second option is this one shoulder velvet sheath dress. I really like the combination of velvet and satin on this one.

The fabric combination seems like a good match for the formality of the event, and the satin foldover detail gives it the modern touch I need to feel authentic to my personal style, while still allowing me to wear my favorite sheath-style silhouette.

Eliza J. Velvet One Shoulder Dress  // Sam Edelman Kia in Gold (8) (also at Nordstrom) // Loeffler Randall Rhinestone Baguette Bag – 25% off // J.Crew bracelet & earrings – 40% off

I also really like the side slit, and although I feel like it could be a little shorter, I do like the below-the-knee length. It looks more formal than the shorter styles, and since this event is black tie optional and there will be some in floor-length gowns, I feel like this helps to walk that line of formality.

Also, Alison helped me figure out how I’m supposed to wear the satin foldover piece. I was wearing it on my shoulder, as pictured on the Bloomingdale’s website, and it was doing wonky things in the back. But she found another photo online where it was worn off the shoulder, as I’m wearing it here, and it looks so much better from all sides.

It’s also more comfortable than it looks. It stays in place when I move around, and it gives me just enough coverage to feel appropriate for a work event, but not so much that I feel frumpy.

This time I swapped out the shorter statement earrings for a longer pair, and I removed the necklace.

I really love these earrings, especially with this dress. I wish the clear crystal that I have wasn’t sold out. They’re lighter than they look because they’re on a fabric backing, so smart!

I also really love this square-shaped crystal tennis bracelet. I didn’t want to wear it and the matching necklace with the strapless dress, but since I’m not wearing a necklace with this one, I would definitely wear this bracelet.

I’m excited to add this Loeffler Randall Rhinestone Baguette Bag to my evening bag collection. It goes so well with these matte gold heels, and I know it will be nice to have in the future, as well.

It’s a bit of a splurge, but it’s currently part of the Blooomingdale’s Friends & Family 25% off sale, as is this dress, by the way.

The Eliza J. one-shoulder dress is probably my top contender at this point, but then there is this metallic sheath.

This dress has an entirely different vibe than the two above, and that’s what I’m unsure about because it’s a perfect fit, and I absolutely love it. I’m just not sure it’s the look I want to present at this event.

Vince Camuto Embellished Cap Sleeve Sheath Dress (10) // Sam Edelman Kia in Gold (8) (also at Nordstrom) // Loeffler Randall Bailey Pleated Clutch – 25% off // J.Crew bracelet – 40% off // Ettika Crystal Chandelier Earrings

I feel like you see the dress coming before you see me, and it has more of a fun festive aura about it that seems more appropriate for a New Year’s Eve party than a corporate black tie optional affair.

As an aside, I do not know why I look so awkward in these pictures! (All of them, except maybe the first one.) Shooting inside the house is weird. I can’t move around like I do when we’re outside, and I feel like I always look stiff and awkward, when in reality, I feel quite comfortable in this dress.

It’s also so easy to just slip on and go… although, now that I figured out how to arrange the satin foldover detail on the one-shoulder dress, it’s pretty easy too.

I kept on that gorgeous square-shaped crystal tennis bracelet with this dress, but I decided a black bag would look better than the gold, so I grabbed this pleated clutch about halfway through our photo shoot.

It has a gold chain that tucks neatly inside, but I will definitely use it at the event when I want to be hands-free

I went back to the Ettika crystal earrings for this one because the dress is such a statement on its own. I feel like these complement the dress without competing with it.

And I really should have taken this outside and photographed it with the black faux fur jacket I would wear with it. I think it would look so good together.

Here’s the dress with the gold baguette bag, but I feel like the black looks so much better. And I love the matte gold sandals look with this dress.

In fact, it is because I pulled them out to wear with this dress that I even bothered to try them with the two black dresses. I had ordered other options for those, but in the end, I think I’ll wear these no matter which dress I choose.

They coordinate perfectly with that gold baguette bag, if I end up wearing one of the black dresses, and they also look great with this dress and the black pleated clutch.

So yeah, after all that, I am still not sure which dress I want to wear. I’m leaning towards the one-shoulder because I feel like it might be more appropriate for the event, and it best exudes the overall vibe I want to present.

At the end of the day, they are both good options, and it really doesn’t matter which I chose, so I might just bring both and see which one feels most comfortable to me once I get there.

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Fashion
November 29, 2023
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What I Wore Lately Vol. 118

Greetings, and happy Wednesday! I hope you’ve recovered from the busy holiday weekend. I’m getting there.

Today I’ve rounded up my everyday outfits from the past couple of weeks, and I’m realizing from looking at the graphic below that I pretty much wore blue jeans every. single. day. I didn’t even realize I did that.

Oh, well! As I always say, this is real life I’m living here. I do love my blue jeans, and even when I’m dressing up, I’ve been preferring the blue denim washes to black lately.

That said, I have three pairs of black jeans getting hemmed, so once I get those back, I’ll have a little more variety in my denim-based outfits. ANYWHO. Let’s get this party started.

Two Weeks of Everyday Outfits

SIZING NOTES: I’m 5’5″ and I usually wear a small in tops and dresses, a 29 in jeans, and a size 8 shoe. Gifted items are indicated by c/o; everything else I purchased myself.

These looks harken back to the Thursday two weeks ago, and I had a photo shoot that morning. Afterwards, I changed into athleisure to go to PT, and I had a doctor appointment immediately after that, so I just stayed this way for the rest of the day. It was kind of a waste of a good hair and makeup day, but what can you do???

Vuori jacket c/o (S) // Zella Ava Tee (S) // Vuori joggers c/o (M) // On Cloud sneakers (8.5) // Jenny Bird earrings

I took a friend to lunch for her birthday that Friday, so I dressed up a bit. I wanted a fall vibe, and rather than reinventing the wheel, I wore this popular outfit from last season.

Because it’s from last season, nothing I’m wearing is still available (other than the boots) so I tried to find similar products to link. These coated jeans are like a raisin color, which I love, but I’m having trouble finding anything quite like them. Maybe someone reading along has a suggestion.

Vince sweater (option) // coated denim options here & here // Marc Fisher boots // similar necklace // J.Crew earrings (option)

It was a mild day, and I was running late (what else is new?) so I didn’t bother with a coat.

My daughter and I went shopping the next day, and I wore this cozy look with a neural fair isle sweater and my favorite jeans as of late.

I first tried it with my new LØCI sneakers… more on these in my next Try-On Haul!

J. Crew coat (6) // Gap Factory sweater (S) // MOTHER Dazzler (29) (budget option) // LØCI Nine Logo Sneakers (8) // Jenny Bird earrings

At the time, I wasn’t sure I was keeping those sneakers, so I switched into my cozy UGG Minis.

And I topped it all off with my new J.Crew Daphne Topcoat. I like the mix of dressy and casual in this look. I feel like it gives these classic pieces a more modern vibe.

J. Crew coat (6) // Gap Factory sweater (S) // MOTHER Dazzler (29) (budget option) // UGG Classic Ultra Mini (8) // Jenny Bird earrings

This is my uniform for walking the dog these days when it’s not super cold outside. I just grabbed a picture on a random morning, so I could add it in here.

Vuori jacket c/o (S) // Zella performance tee (S) // Athleta Balance Flare (S) // On Cloud sneakers (8.5)

And this is another cozy walk-the-dog outfit that I’ve had on repeat lately… Notice the little furry head at the bottom of this photo. Savannah was waiting patiently for me to take my picture because she knew we were going for a walk.

Athleta Cozy Karma Sweatshirt (S) // Athleta Balance Flare (S) // On Cloud sneakers (8.5)

This is what I wore to church the next Sunday morning. I just picked up these MOTHER Hustler ankle flare jeans when they were on sale last week, to have another pair of shorter jeans, since I’m wearing the Dazzlers so much.

I was curious to try them with these black suede low heeled pointy toe booties, and I love the combo. Of course, full length flares would look good too, but I like this ankle length for showing off my booties. It keeps the look modern and fun.

This animal print blouse is also a new addition this fall. I’m loving anything Rails these days! I first tried it front-tucked, but in combination with the high rise of the jeans, I felt like it called too much attention to my middle-aged middle, so I tried it left out.

Rails blouse (S) // MOTHER Hustler in Healing Jar (29) (option) // Sam Edelman boots (8)

Normally I don’t let flowy tops just hang because it looks unfinished and adds visual weight, but this one has such a nice drape, and the 23 1/2″ length is in my sweet spot range, so I feel like it looks more natural left untucked.

Longer jeans might balance out my proportions better, but I still feel like this works, and it felt more authentic to wear it this way. I accessorized with bold gold hoops and a layered necklace.

And once again, I topped it all off with my new camel topcoat. Black would work too, of course, but I like how the camel complements the medium wash blue jeans, and it also coordinates with the colors in the blouse.

These boots are remarkably comfortable for a dressy bootie, by the way. The top of the shaft is soft against my leg, and the low heel is very walkable. I highly recommend them.

J. Crew coat (6) // Rails blouse (S) // MOTHER Hustler in Healing Jar (29) (option) // Sam Edelman boots (8) // J. Crew earrings (option) // Madewell necklace

Later in the afternoon, Paul and I went out for a casual dinner, and I changed into a slightly less dressy outfit with the same jeans.

Treasure & Bond jacket (S) // Caslon long sleeve tee (S) // MOTHER Hustler in Healing Jar (29) (option) // Dolce Vita boots (8) // similar belt // Coach bucket bag // J. Crew earrings // similar necklace

This was a casual day working from home, but evidently I didn’t get a picture until that evening. And hey, look! I did wear black jeans once this week.

Treasure & Bond sweater (S) // Fidelity Cher (29) (option, on sale) // P448 John sneakers (39) // Jenny Bird earrings // similar pendant

The next evening, I went to the mall to do some Christmas shopping with Paul. I hadn’t intended to keep this Rails jacket. I just ordered it for a try-on haul to show you all another jacket option, but when I tried it on, I liked it too much to return it. #occupationalhazards

It’s pricey, but black is so versatile in my wardrobe, I’m sure I’ll get my cost per wear out of it eventually. I’ll keep my eye on it and let you all know if it goes on sale anywhere. If you’re not into black, it also comes in this fun plaid.

Rails wool blend jacket (S) // Nordstrom cashmere sweater (S) // MOTHER Dazzler (29) (budget option) // LØCI Origin logo-patch sneakers (8) // B-Low the Belt belt (M) // similar bag // Jenny Bird earrings

I wore this simple outfit to an appointment one afternoon. I haven’t worn these Vince flats from the #NSale very much because they’re a warmer tone than much of what I wear, but I love them, and I was happy to see how well they work with this sweater and coat.

J. Crew coat (6) // Jenni Kayne Everyday Sweater (S) // MOTHER Dazzler (29) (budget option) // Vince Cesta flats (8) (similar) // Jenny Bird earrings

I guess I wore black jeans twice in the past two weeks, although I didn’t wear this outfit for very long. I put it on for Thanksgiving, but I ended up changing before our guests arrived. I don’t really know why, I just wasn’t feeling this casual look for Thanksgiving Day.

Lou & Grey colorblock sweater (S) // AG Mari (29) // UGG slippers (8) // Jenny Bird earrings

This is what I ended up wearing for most of the day. I just felt like I wanted something slightly more dressed-up, but I still needed to be comfortable. This sweater isn’t very thick or warm, so it was perfect for hosting a gathering, when I tend to get overheated.

Splendid cardigan (S) // MOTHER Weekender (29) (budget option) // Dolce Vita boots (8) // Jenny Bird earrings // similar pendant

We went to the tree farm the next day to get our family Christmas tree, and I felt like this sweater looked appropriately festive. I wore my lug sole boots in case I got muddy, and that meant I was back to my MOTHER Dazzlers.

I’m wearing these jeans way too much lately, but they’re the only blue jeans I have that I like with flats right now. I can’t seem to find the right pair for a more updated look, so it is what it is.

I’ve never been bothered by wearing the same item of clothing on repeat. If I love it, I tend to wear it a lot.

Sundry Fair Isle sweater (1) // MOTHER Dazzler (29) (budget option) // Steve Madden boots (8) // Lagos earrings

We had plans to go out to a casual dinner with friends that night, and I wanted to look nice but not too over the top. I started with the MOTHER Hustler ankle flares and Vince low heeled black booties because I knew they’d work together.

From there, I had plenty of options for tops, almost too many. I considered one of my cute jackets, but it was a really cold night, so I decided to choose a sweater that I could wear under my long puffer coat.

This stripe cardigan seemed like a good option since it’s more interesting than a solid pullover, and the black stripes coordinate with the black shoes.

Rails cardigan (S) // MOTHER Hustler in Healing Jar (29) (option) // Vince boots (8.5) // old John Hardy hoops // similar pendant

Last Saturday, my daughter and I went to the mall again, and I pulled this outfit together with this olive corduroy jacket.

I like each individual piece, but I don’t really care for the way the shirt and jacket are the same length when the shirt is tucked, and it’s too long to leave out. I’ll play around with other options.

Thread & Supply Corduroy jacket (S) // Splendid henley (M) // MOTHER Dazzler (29) (budget option) // P448 Monza sneakers (39) (budget option) // old John Hardy hoops // similar pendant

And that brings us to last Sunday! I haven’t worn this Rails Harris stripe collared sweater as much as I thought I would, so I built my outfit around it.

These boots are also a newer purchase; I wanted something in this color, so when I saw this Vince pair on sale, I snagged them before they can sell out!

Rails Harris sweater (S) // Paige Laurel Canyon jeans (29) // Vince boots (8) // old John Hardy hoops // similar pendant

And I topped it once again with, wait for it… my J.Crew Daphne Topcoat. I love how it goes with so many of my tops, and it really has a way of elevating a basic denim outfit.

J. Crew coat (6) // Rails Harris sweater (S) // Paige Laurel Canyon jeans (29) // Vince boots (8) // Coach bucket bag // old John Hardy hoops // similar pendant

I re-wore this outfit to go out to an early dinner later that afternoon. It was probably silly to change, but I didn’t want to wear the higher heels, so that meant I couldn’t wear those jeans, so I just grabbed this outfit off the chair in my bedroom and threw it on again.

verrry old Burberry Brit Finsbridge quilted coat (M) option // Rails cardigan (S) // MOTHER Hustler in Healing Jar (29) // Vince boots (8.5) // old John Hardy hoops // similar pendant

And once again, I wore this yesterday to walk the dog and go to PT.

I would have kept that on for the rest of the day, but I had two Zoom calls, so I decided to put on real clothes. By the looks of this picture, I should have put on more makeup too. I’m looking a little rough. Oh, well!

Also, I really don’t care for the length of this shorter (21″) sweater with these mid-rise jeans. It looks better with high rises, so I need to keep that in mind. I could have probably sized up to a medium, too, but I’m wearing the small.

It served its purpose for my Zoom calls, though. I wish they hadn’t discontinued this color; it’s so pretty and flatters almost everyone. Perfect for being on camera!

Everlane Boxy Crew (S) // MOTHER Dazzler (29) (budget option) // UGG Ultra Mini (8) // Lagos earrings

And that, as they say, is a wrap! I cannot believe we are now officially in holiday mode. I have events the next two weekends, so I’ll definitely have more variety in my outfits next time I post what I wore lately.

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Fall/Winter
November 22, 2023
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The Jeans I Can’t Stop Wearing

When it comes to denim, I am usually wearing MOTHER or PAIGE. Of all the jeans I’ve tried over the years, these two brands fit me the best and align most closely to my personal style goals.

In my opinion you just can’t beat the fit and feel, the overall quality of materials and workmanship, and the attention to detail that comes with these two brands. Yes, they’re spendy, but because I pretty much live in jeans, the cost per wear averages out over time.

I have two go-to pairs of MOTHER jeans that have been getting the most airtime recently.

The MOTHER Dazzler is my favorite pair of straight ankle jeans, and the most-worn pair of jeans currently in my closet.

MOTHER The Mid Rise Dazzler Ankle Fray in Riding the Cliffside (also at Bloomingdale’s and Shopbop) (size 29) // SUNDRY sweater (1) // P448 Monza (39) (budget option) // YSL sunnies (budget option) // Jenny Bird earrings // YSL camera bag (budget option)

These jeans have a 9 3/4″ mid rise with a 27 1/2″ ankle-length inseam and a 13″ leg opening, and they’re made of an incredibly soft and stretchy 78% Cotton 16% Modal 4% Polyester 2% Elastane. I love this vintage-inspired light mid-indigo wash for casual everyday wear.

FIT TIP: If you have more athletic legs, they may fit more like a skinny, and I recommend trying The Tomcat. The Tomcat also has a higher rise, for those who prefer that.

The MOTHER Dazzler pairs perfectly with sneakers, as I’m wearing them here. While longer and more relaxed denim styles are coming back into vogue, I still like this body-hugging look with a sliver of ankle showing.

The wider leg opening is what keeps them looking too much like the legging skinny jeans we were all wearing in the twenty-tens.

I wore these jeans recently with my new LØCI sneakers and Rails wool jacket over a cashmere sweater. I love this color combination, and as you can see, these jeans work with lots of sneaker styles.

MOTHER The Mid Rise Dazzler Ankle Fray in Riding the Cliffside (also at Bloomingdale’s and Shopbop) (size 29) // Nordstrom cashmere – on sale (S) // Rails Cheyenne Wool Blend Jacket (S) // LØCI Origin logo-patch sneakers (39) // B-Low the Belt (M)

This denim style also looks great with the popular UGG Ultra Mini Boots.

MOTHER The Mid Rise Dazzler Ankle Fray in Riding the Cliffside (also at Bloomingdale’s and Shopbop) (size 29) // similar jacket // Jenni Kayne cashmere sweater // UGG Ultra Mini (8) // Coach Dakota handbag

And I like to wear them with ballet flats and loafers when I want to level up my look.

I usually wear the MOTHER Dazzler with flats, but sometimes I wear them with a low heeled bootie. As long as the shaft is narrow enough to slide underneath, I’m good.

similar Aquatalia boots // old LOFT trench

My other favorite pair of MOTHER jeans right now is the The Weekender Fray, which is a high rise full-length flare with a frayed hem.

MOTHER The Weekender Fray Jeans (also at Bloomingdale’s, Saks & Nordstrom) (size 29) // Treasure & Bond jacket (S) // Nordstrom cashmere – on sale (S) // similar boots // similar belt // DIFF sunnies // Coach Dakota handbag

These jeans have a higher 10 3/4″ rise and a 31″ inseam with a 20″ leg opening, making them a subtle flare.

For me, this is the perfect length to wear with a bit of a heel, and the medium indigo wash is so versatile.

MOTHER The Weekender Fray Jeans (also at Bloomingdale’s, Saks & Nordstrom) (size 29) // J.Crew vest (S) // Jenni Kayne cashmere sweater (S) // Paul Green boots (sold out)

They pair perfectly with all of the neutrals and colors in my closet, and I find myself reaching for them over and over again.

MOTHER The Weekender Fray Jeans (also at Bloomingdale’s, Saks & Nordstrom) (size 29) // Splendid cardigan (S) // Dolce Vita boots (8) // Jenny Bird earrings // similar pendant

Both of these jeans run true to size for me. I’m almost always a 29 in jeans, and that is what I wear in both of these styles.

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Gift Guides
November 22, 2023
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Hostess & White Elephant Gifts Under $50

Hi friends! Happy Thanksgiving Eve! I’m sure most of you are busy prepping for the holiday, but if you have a time to sit and catch your breath, I’m  continuing my holiday gift guide series, and today’s post is a two-for-one.

one // two // three // four // five // six // seven // eight // nine // ten // eleven // twelve // thirteen // fourteen // fifteen

Every year, my family looks forward to our Yankee Swap… a.k.a Dirty Santa or White Elephant Gift Exchange.

There’s always a wide array of gifts from funny to practical, and everyone has a great time opening (and, or course, stealing) gifts! In case you’re attending or hosting a White Elephant Gift Exchange this year, I rounded up a bunch of gift ideas under $50.

While I was putting together my White Elephant gift guide, I realized a lot of these items would also make great hostess gifts. There’s nothing worse than getting caught at the last minute without a hostess gift, am I right?

So I decided to combine them all into one comprehensive list with gift ideas under $50.

White Elephant & Hostess Gift Ideas Under $50

#1. NEST Holiday Candle // You can never go wrong with a candle by NEST, and this Blue Cypress and Snow scent sounds amazing.

#2. Washable Drink Markers // If you’ve ever attended a dinner party or gathering at a friend’s home, you know the struggle of keeping up with your drink! This is a great tool for every hostess to have on hand.

#3. Hot Chocolate Collection Gift Set // This fun hot chocolate set includes 9 uniquely flavored cocoa mixes (Chocolate Cherry, Snickerdoodle, Gingerbread Cookie, Caramel, Toasted Marshmallow and more) in convenient gift packaging.

#4. The Cheese Board Deck // This deck of cards will help your hostess elevate her charcuterie skills so she can assemble a professional looking spread on game days, holidays, birthday parties, and more! I may have just added this to my own cart.

#5. Wooden Cutting Board // Pair the cheese board styling cards with a new wood cutting board, so they can practice and execute their new cheese board skills.

#6. The Chocolate Chip Cookie Book // This cookbook by Katie Jacobs has 100 different recipes of all different skill levels to help the baker in your life up their dessert game.

#7. La Chatelaine Hand Creams // Hand creams are a great gift for woman who has everything or for someone you don’t know very well. The scents in this set are luxurious, and tin is so pretty that you simply need to add a bow.

#8. Christmas Wine Bags // I love to gift a good bottle of wine when I’m a dinner guest, and it looks so much merrier in a festive bag. I also like these gold foil handled bags.

#9. White Elephant Candle // Cheesy? Maybe, but I think this White Elephant candle is such a fun idea. You can also purchase the candle with a different saying, like Book Club, Friendsgiving, and so many more.

#10. Crab Spoon Rest // If you prefer bringing quirky gifts, you’ll love this fun, heat resistant crab. He can serve as a both a spoon holder or a steam release, and there’s also a dog version.

#11. Modern Coaster Set // Everyone needs coasters, and this set has a modern, minimalistic design, and it comes in a sleek acrylic holder.

#12. Vegetable Chopper // This vegetable chopper continues to be one of Amazon’s best selling kitchen tools, making it a great hostess or White Elephant gift choice. The interchangeable blades make chopping, mincing, slicing, and dicing ingredients for foods like salsa or salads an absolute breeze.

#13. Mrs. Meyer’s Clean Day Holiday Hand Soap Bundle // Every hostess needs a stockpile of good hand soaps to keep her powder room stocked, and these 3 holiday scents (Peppermint, Iowa Pine, and Orange Clove) are enriched with essential oils, aloe vera, and olive oil.

#14. Savannah Bee Company Honey //I love the idea of gifting this raw honey crafted from the nectar of magnolias, spiderwort, and other flowers found in its home state of Georgia.

#15. Yeti Tumbler // They can take their favorite drink to go and keep it cold for hours with this YETI tumbler. You also could fill it with candies or a gift card.

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Try-On Hauls
November 18, 2023
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Winter Fashion Try-On Haul

Hi, friends! I’ve got another Try-On Haul for you today! Believe it or not, I have even more packages arriving that I want to share with you, but I figured I should go ahead and get these up while so many are on sale.

Speaking of sales, I was planning to add a bunch of the items I’ve worn lately that are on sale to the end of this post, but it was getting too long, so I’ll put a separate post up later today.

Winter Fashion Try-On Haul: Evereve, Bloomingdale’s, Nordstrom & More

SIZING NOTES: I’m 5’5″ and I usually wear a small in tops and dresses, a 29 in jeans, and a size 8 shoe. Gifted items are indicated by c/o; everything else I purchased myself.

Most of these items are from Evereve, Bloomingdale’s, and Nordstrom.

Bloomingdale’s is still running this promo: Take $25 Off Every $100 You Spend on items labeled TAKE 25% OFF + Take Additional 15% off with code EXTRA15. And then on almost everything else, Loyallists get a $25 Reward for every $100 you spend. These add up fast, and you get them within a couple days!

Nordstrom has a bunch of really good Black Friday Deals + New Markdowns, and Evereve isn’t running a sale yet, but I’m sure they will next weekend.

Splendid Kendall Stripe Cardigan

at Nordstrom (S) // at Splendid.com – 40% off // Gap Factory tank (M) // similar PAIGE denim (29) // Dolce Vita Dee Bootie – on sale (8.5)

Stripes and v-neck cardigans are both trending this fall and winter, and I’m loving both, especially when combined into one garment like this one. Splendid products are all made in the USA, and they have some of the softest, loveliest fabrics.

This sweater is super soft and comfortable, and it’s cozy but not super warm. It would be nice for those who live in warmer climates. I like how the black stripes are outlined with camel and grounded on a cool shade of beige – I’d call it oatmeal. Bloomingdale’s has a green version on sale.

I tried it both buttoned and unbuttoned, and I like it both ways. This length is highly versatile, and should work well with a lot of different denim silhouettes.

VERDICT: I also ordered the green on sale from Bloomies, and I plan to try both on with various jeans and see which I want to keep. I will only keep one, as I don’t like to have duplicates in my closet.

Design History Fair Isle Sweater

at Evereve (S) // on sale at Saks (S) // white tank – on sale (M) // similar PAIGE denim (29) // Steve Madden Chelsea Boots – on sale (8)

I absolutely love this sweater; it takes me right back to college in New England in the early 90s, when we all wore those super thick fair isle cardigans with the wooden buttons!

The color palette on this is really nice too, but I’m struggling with how to style it.

I like how the model on the website is wearing it, with the lower few buttons undone. I tried that, and I think it’s okay, but maybe I need to try it over a white tee where the neckline shows a bit. I like that added interest.

Instead, I put it over a white tank – and this is a really nice one, by the way. It’s Splendid, the same brand as the sweater above, and it looks and feels very high quality.

Here’s how the sweater looks unbuttoned, and also with just the top button fastened. I feel like the one button look sort of works.

I’m just not sure I love it with the wide leg jeans, although it sort of works. There’s a nice effortless appeal about this overall look, even if it isn’t as slimming as some of my other outfits.

To give it a totally different vibe, I also tried the black PAIGE Leenah Trouser and a pointed toe bootie, but this feels a little mumsy to me. I definitely prefer this cardigan in the more casual look.

VERDICT: I think I’m keeping this sweater, but I need to try it with some other denim silhouettes.

Halogen Gold Button Ribbed Sweater

at Nordstrom – 33% off (S) // Vince Camuto pants – on sale (S) // Marc Fisher pumps (8)

This is just a nice, versatile sweater for work or date nights. It’s a thick nylon/rayon ribbed knit, and it’s clingy, but not in an unflattering way.

I love the gold button detail on the shoulder; the way they’re designed in a diagonal pattern is very flattering. It’s 24″ long, so you can wear it tucked or untucked, depending on your body type and the proportions of the outfit.

VERDICT: Keeping! This is a nice option to have for church and dinners out, and it’s now on sale!

Vince Camuto Faux Suede Pants

at Bloomingdale’s ($25 off every $100 + 15% off with EXTRA15) (S) // LNA Emelie Rib Top (M) // Marc Fisher pumps (8)

These pants are a really nice work wear option to have. They’re a soft, stretchy faux suede.

The pull-on style makes them very comfortable and easy to wear. The seaming up the front and back is elongating and adds a nice element of interest, and they’re fully lined.

I like how they don’t create any bulk through the waist, so you can wear them with form-fitting tops untucked, as I’m doing here. They’re on sale at Bloomingdale’s right now, and they run true to size.

This LNA Emelie Top is 22″ long (as opposed to the 24″ Halogen sweater above) so I like it better left untucked with pants like these.

VERDICT: I’m holding onto these. I think they will be nice to have. They have a similar silhouette, but are not quite as form-fitting as my Vince Crop Leggings.

Rails Indi Animal Spot Blouse

at Evereve (S) // at Nordstrom (S) // Vince Camuto pants – on sale (S) // Marc Fisher pumps (8)

This is a gorgeous blouse; I love the abstract animal spot print. It’s a fresh take on leopard, which got rather tired for me when it was trending so hard a few seasons ago.

It’s lined in the bodice, but the arms are sheer, and it has a front button placket you can unbutton to your comfort level.

The swingy silhouette has a 23 1/2″ straight hem, so you can leave it untucked if you like, but I prefer a front tuck to accentuate the waist.

I also tried it with my PAIGE Laurel Canyon High Waist Flares and Vince boots, and both are part of the $25 off every $100 + 15% off with EXTRA15 promo at Bloomingdale’s.

I absolutely love this combination. It’s a little more urban/modern/edgy than with the suede pants, yet still classy and on brand for me.

VERDICT: Keeping! I can’t wait to wear this to dinner sometime soon.

Wit & Wisdom ‘Ab’Solution Skyrise Wide Leg Pants

at Nordstrom (8) // black top (S) // Vince booties – on sale (8)

I ordered these, to try another work wear option for those who need it. I wanted to try a wide leg style, and I like the subtle brown print.

These don’t look like much on the rack (or, out of the box, rather), but when I tried them on, I was pleasantly surprised. I think they’d be a nice option for those who need a variety of pants for work or just prefer pants to jeans.

VERDICT: I sent them back because I just don’t wear non-denim pants very often, but as I look at these pictures, I’m wondering if I should have kept them for church. They’re a decent price for pants, but not on sale at the moment.

Aqua Cashmere V-Neck

at Bloomingdale’s – on sale (M) // AG Mari – on sale (29) // Vince booties – on sale (8)

I used to wear a lot of cashmere from Bloomingdale’s in-house brand, Aqua. They’re on a really good sale right now, so I wanted to revisit them, and this gorgeous seagreen v-neck caught my eye.

FYI, I reviewed the turtleneck version in my last Try-On Haul, if you want to check that out.

It’s a nice quality fabric, and I like the cut of the v-neckline, but evidently, they haven’t shortened them to keep up with the times.

I gave it a front tuck to bring the proportions of the outfit into better balance, which works just fine.

Fit Tip: These sweaters run small; I’m in the medium here, and as you can see, it’s none too big.

VERDICT: I might return this, I don’t know that I love it enough to keep it, but if you need a classic cashmere v-neck, it comes in TONS of colors, and it’s a very good value for $106. (The extra 15% off does not apply to these.)

Also, those AG Mari jeans are part of the $25 off every $100 + 15% off with EXTRA15 at Bloomingdale’s.

KUT from the Kloth Alena Zip Faux Suede Jacket

at Nordstrom (S) // Aqua cashmere sweater – on sale (M) // AG Mari – on sale (29) // Vince booties – on sale (8)

I don’t know why this jacket looks lavender; it is grey. And I like the clean, minimalist stying a lot, but the faux suede material kind of icks me out; I can’t really explain why. Maybe I’d like it better in the black. It also runs small; it felt tight across my shoulders and back, at least worn over this sweater.

VERDICT: I returned it; I might try the black in a medium.

Velvet Stripe Pullover

at Bloomingdale’s ($25 off every $100 + 15% off with EXTRA15) (S) // MOTHER Dazzler (29) // J.Crew sneakers (25% off) (8h)

I’ve already worn this, so you may have seen it, but I wanted to throw it in here since it’s on sale. I love the polo collar, the ivory and navy stripes, and the short-but-not-quite-cropped length.

It’s pricey, but the quality is nice, and I don’t have anything quite like it. I took pictures from all angles, trying to decide if I like this length or if it’s too short. I think it works, but these mid-rise jeans may not be the best pairing for it.

I also tried it with wide leg jeans and boots. I wore these jeans a lot in the spring and summer, but I’m trying to figure out how to incorporate them into my fall/winter wardrobe. I think this is the answer – they look great with shorter sweaters like this that aren’t fitted but not voluminous either.

These are the PAIGE Anessa Wide Leg Ankle Jeans in the size 29, and they’re part of the Bloomies Black Friday promo ($25 off every $100 + 15% off) and the weather proof Aquatalia Luissa booties that are on sale at Nordstrom Rack.

VERDICT: Keeping this sweater; I already wore it once!

VELVET Gigi Pullover

at Evereve (S) // MOTHER Dazzler (29) // J.Crew sneakers (25% off) (8h)

This is such an easy pullover to throw on with jeans; I love the soft and spongy ribbed knit, the raglan sleeves, and the rolled edges at the cuffs and hem. The color is super pretty, too.

I’m just not sure about the 21″ length; it’s just a smidge too short to work with these mid-rise jeans. Even one more inch would make a big difference.

VERDICT: Deciding. I need to try it with a few other denim options before I decide whether to keep or not, but I didn’t have time.

Also, I fully expect Evereve to run a Black Friday Sale when Thanksgiving gets closer, so if you have your eye on this, I’d wait.

O.P.T Tasia Pullover

at Evereve (S) // MOTHER Dazzler (29) // J.Crew sneakers (25% off) (8h)

Okay, last one! This easy pullover in a soft rib knit with a collared neckline and long sleeves is such a versatile piece. You could easily layer it under a boxy blazer, if you like that look, but it stands alone nicely, as well. You could dress it up with trousers for work, or dress it down on the weekends.

My only issue is, it is a bit clingy. I’m not sure I love how it hugs the muffin top, but a higher rise jean would probably solve that issue.  That’s really an issue with the pants more than the top.

It’s a very soft, high quality knit. I like it a lot.

VERDICT: Deciding. I have a lot of sweaters; and I need to try it with some other pants and see how I feel in it.

Okay, that’s a wrap for the try-ons. I decided to make a new post for the sales because it was getting so long.

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What I Wore Lately
November 15, 2023
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What I Wore Lately Vol. 117

Cozy season is here, and this latest edition of What I Wore Lately is chock full of warm and comfy, casual winter outfits! Because this is what I wear on the daily, some items are not from this current season, but I found similar links for almost everything that’s out of stock.

SIZING NOTES: I’m 5’5″ and I usually wear a small in tops and dresses, a 29 in jeans, and a size 8 shoe. Gifted items are indicated by c/o; everything else I purchased myself.

I also want to call your attention to some of the sales going on because a lot of the things I’m wearing are included. I also tried to mention the sale along with each corresponding product link under the photos.

  • Bloomingdale’s // Take $25 off every $100 you spend on select items labeled TAKE $25 OFF EVERY $100, and shipping is free for Loyallist rewards members.
  • Saks // Get up to $275 off your purchase with code NOVGETSF. (Be sure to use code FREESHIP for free shipping.)
  • J.Crew // 25% off full-price styles, and up to 40% off dressed-up styles, prices as marked.
  • Nordstrom // New markdowns just added.
  • Jenni Kayne // 25% off thru 11/27. This is their best sale of the year, and historically, they do not increase it on Cyber Monday, so now’s the best time to shop!

Two Weeks of Casual Everyday Outfits

I love a pullover with jeans and sneakers or boots in the fall, but it can get repetitive. This year, I’m trying to have more variety in both categories so my outfits don’t look the same every day.

This Treasure & Bond sweater is a nice option for those who don’t like to spend for cashmere or wool, or are allergic. I love the crossover v-neck and relaxed fit, and it looks and feels like a good quality sweater. It comes in a bunch of colors, and it runs true to size.

Treasure & Bond sweater (S) // MOTHER Dazzler at Saks or Bloomies (29) (budget option) // P448 John (39) // Jenny Bird earrings // similar necklace

This is a similar look with different pieces. These jeans are old, but I keep them to have an alternative to the MOTHER Dazzler that I’m wearing above. I find slim straight ankle jeans the easiest to wear with sneakers, so I wear them a lot.

I wish this sweater hadn’t sold out so fast. I love the length, the fit, and the polo style neckline. I found a couple similar options for you, though.

Also, my J. Crew Field sneakers are 25% off with SHOPNOW. I’m in the 8h (which is the J.Crew version of 8 1/2.)

LOFT sweater (S) (option) (option) // similar Frame jeans (29) // J. Crew Field sneakers (8h) (25% off with SHOPNOW) // earrings // similar necklace

This camel and black stripe cardigan is probably my favorite sweater purchase this fall. I wear it every chance I get. I wore it one afternoon with blue jeans and sneakers to go rug shopping. (You know you’re an adult when you get excited about rug shopping.)

Rails Geneva Cardigan ($50 off at Bloomies; more sizes at Nordstrom & Shopbop) (similar for less) // MOTHER Dazzler at Saks or Bloomies (29) (budget option) // VEJA sneakers (39) // Jenny Bird earrings & necklace // similar olive shoulder bag

And this is yet another variation on the theme. I wore that same stripe cardigan with black jeans and ballet flats to church one Sunday.

This sweater, jeans, and shoes are all part of the $25 off every $100 you spend at Bloomingdale’s right now. Sizes are getting depleted, though, so I also linked them at a few other retailers.

Rails Geneva Cardigan ($50 off at Bloomies; more sizes at Nordstrom & Shopbop) (similar for less) // AG Mari in City View (30) ($50 off at Bloomies; more sizes at Nordstrom & Saks) (budget option) // Marc Fisher flats (8) ($25 off) // Jenny Bird earrings & necklace

This is another simple sweater and jeans outfit. I had a few appointments that day, so I brought my laptop along to work at Starbucks in between. I’m trying to remember to take outfit pictures with my coats too. This is a verrrrry old Burberry that I still love to wear. I linked a similar option below.

similar coat // Jenni Kayne sweater – 25% off! (S) // similar jeans // similar mules // Goyard tote (similar for less) // earrings

When I’m tired of sweaters and I need a casual top with  jeans and sneakers, I love a sweatshirt with some interesting details. This raw hem hoodie with the striped sleeves from last year has been discontinued, but I still linked it in case anyone wants to hunt it down on Poshmark or eBay.

Evereve Blake hoodie (S) // MOTHER Dazzler at Saks or Bloomies (29) (budget option) // P448 Monza (39) ($75 off!) // earrings // Capital Z crossbody c/o

We went to see my daughter perform with her band one night at an, ahem… very interesting venue. Apparently, they take Halloween very seriously!

I asked Paul to take this picture because I felt like it needed to be documented. I really wish more of my outfits pictures were taken “on location” so to speak. It’s just awkward to do so much of the time, or I’m not around anyone I would feel comfortable asking.

This Equipment sweater is one of my favorite cashmere pieces, and it’s part of the Bloomies $25 off every $100 promo. Also, I love how my Capital Z crossbody adds interest to the simple look.

leather bomber (S) (budget option) // Equipment sweater (S) // similar jeans // P448 John (39) // Jenny Bird earrings // similar necklace // Capital Z crossbody (sign up for emails, and get 20% off!)

I shared in this post how I was feeling bored with my fall wardrobe and realized I need some new jackets to add variety to my simple outfits.

Sometimes leather feels too edgy, and I’m not a fan of blazers and cardigans, so I found a few wool blend options with bomber-inspired styling that I’m really enjoying. This is one of them, and I was just informed it’s 30% off on the Lucky Brand website!

Lucky Brand jacket – 30% off (S) (also at Nordstrom and Macy’s) // Jenni Kayne sweater – 25% off! (S) (budget option) // similar Frame jeans (29) // Sorel Joan boots (8) // earrings

I didn’t like how the jeans were getting caught on the back of those boots, so I switched to sneakers.

Lucky Brand jacket – 30% off (S) (also at Nordstrom and Macy’s) // Jenni Kayne sweater – 25% off! (S) (budget option) // similar Frame jeans (29) // J. Crew Field sneakers (8h) (25% off with SHOPNOW) // earrings

My taupe crossbody looks great with this outfit, so I took a quick pic as I was leaving the house. FYI, this is my favorite Jenni Kayne sweater and it’s 25% off right now. It runs true to size.

Lucky Brand jacket – 30% off (S) (also at Nordstrom and Macy’s) // Jenni Kayne sweater – 25% off! (S) (budget option) // similar Frame jeans (29) // YSL camera bag (budget option)

I wore that outfit again later in the week to a ladies Bible Study I attend regularly. This time, I wore a camel-colored sweater that is 25% off at Nordstrom, although now that I look at these pictures, I like the ivory a lot better with this jacket and the white sneakers.

Also, my new P448 Monza sneakers that are part of the Bloomies Black Friday promo, and my Coach bucket bag is $100 off at Saks!

Lucky Brand jacket – 30% off (S) (also at Nordstrom and Macy’s) // Nordstrom cashmere sweater (S) // MOTHER Dazzler at Saks or Bloomies (29) (budget option) // P448 Monza (39) ($75 off!) (budget option) // Coach bucket bag ($100 off!) // hoops

Here’s a better look at these sneakers. I love this low profile style, and the quality on these is really nice. Did you know P448 sneakers are made in Italy? They’re also part of the Bloomingdale’s promo, so this is a great time to grab a pair if you’ve had your eye on them.

P448 Monza (39) ($75 off!)

I wore that Lucky Brand plaid jacket and camel sweater combo again to meet a friend for drinks one night. I wore my favorite light wash flares and camel-colored boots to dress it up a bit.

As an aside, I love these boots, but I don’t think I like them with flares. A more streamlined toe, either pointy or square, is way more flattering. I do, however, prefer this color shoe with the camel sweater when wearing it with this jacket.

Lucky Brand jacket – 30% off (S) (also at Nordstrom and Macy’s) /// Nordstrom cashmere sweater (S) // MOTHER Weekender (29) (budget option) // old Aquatalia boots (similar) // similar belt // earrings

This is another jacket I picked up recently to liven up my fall wardrobe. I love the bomber jacket styling subtle brown plaid pattern in the wool blend fabric. I layered it over a rust-colored tee and wore my favorite MOTHER Weekenders again.

This time, I wore my brown Dolce Vita Volli Western Booties from last year, and I’m sure you can see how much better a pointy toe looks with flares.

Treasure & Bond jacket S) // Caslon tee (S) // MOTHER Weekender (29) (budget option) // Dolce Vita Volli (8) // earrings

I forget where I wore this, I think it was to the high school for a meeting or band event or something. I wore  my VEJA sneakers with the black accents to coordinate with the black top.

Caslon henley (M) // MOTHER Dazzler at Saks or Bloomies (29) (budget option) // VEJA sneakers (39) // Jenny Bird earrings & necklace

I’m still in PT for my arm/shoulder, as well as an on-going issue with my left calf. I’m pretty sure both issues are related to so much desk sitting, so I’m trying to move around more often.

At any rate, this is my PT uniform, I guess you can call it! I change up the colors, but I usually wear Vuori joggers with a workout tee and a sporty jacket on top.

Vuori Halo jacket c/o (S) // Vuori Performance joggers c/o (M) // Zella tee (S) // ON sneakers (9)

When I want to get really wild and crazy, I change it up and wear a lightweight hoodie instead of a t-shirt. I like this one because you can still wear a jacket on top, and it’s a little warmer than a tank or tee.

Vuori hoodie c/o (M) // Vuori joggers c/o (M) // On Cloud sneakers (9)

And this is what I often wear when walking the dog in our neighborhood. I love these cozy Athleta flares, and this Vuori insulated jacket is another one of my favorite sporty jackets for wearing with activewear this time of year.

I highly recommend every piece I’m wearing here. These are all on constant repeat this fall.

Vuori Canyon Insulated Jacket c/o (S) // Zella tee (M) // Athleta Balance Flare – $29.99 (S) // On Cloud sneakers (8.5)

Paul and I went out for a casual dinner last Saturday afternoon, so I took the opportunity to wear that Treasure & Bond collared bell sleeve sweater from Sunday’s try-on haul.

It’s hard to see the details in this picture, but it has a cut-away collar in addition to the rounded v-neckline, and the fabric is soft and stretchy and a little more body-con than the sweaters I typically wear. It seemed like a good date-night choice!

Treasure & Bond sweater (S) // PAIGE Laurel High Rise Flare Jeans (29) ($50 off) (budget option) // Marc Fisher boots (8) (30% off) // J. Crew earrings (30% off with SHOPEARLY) // similar necklace

I was tired of wearing my MOTHER Weekenders, so I pulled out these PAIGE flares from the #NSale. The darker wash and finished hem makes them just a little more dressed-up, but there’s still enough contrast with the black that I like the combination.

My exact wash is sold out, but the Rock Show Distressed wash is part of the Bloomingdale’s Take $25 Off Every $100 promo, and these boots are 30% off at Nordstrom. I love them to bridge the gap between dressy and casual, and they’re a nice quality leather that hold up to rainy weather.

I added a statement necklace and bold earrings to liven up the simple look, and topped it off with my black leather bomber jacket.

I also carried this fun bag for color and texture. This is from my friend Lindsey’s new accessory brand, Capital Z. It’s a really nice quality bag, and I love how it pops a neutral outfit.

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leather bomber (S) (budget option) // Treasure & Bond sweater (S) // PAIGE Laurel High Rise Flare Jeans (29) ($50 off) // Marc Fisher boots (8) (30% off) // J. Crew earrings (30% off with SHOPEARLY) // similar necklace // Capital Z crossbody (sign up for emails for 20% off)

That brings us to last Sunday. I was getting dressed for church in a rush, so I just grabbed a few old favorites and threw them on. I know it’s plain, but I still love the combination of a charcoal grey sweater with black denim.

This is that Equipment Madalene cashmere sweater that I wore above in camel, and both colors are part of the Bloomingdale’s Take 25% Off promo, but this grey one is also on sale, so it comes to $137.96 in cart, down from $295.

The AG jeans and Vince boots are included, too. These are such luxe, gorgeous booties, and I love the low heel. They’re marked down, in addition to being eligible for the Bloomingdale’s Take $25 Off Every $100 promo, which brings them to $215.54, down from $395. Still spendy, but a good value for such a high quality and versatile boot.

Equipment sweater (S) on sale // AG Mari in City View (29) ($50 off at Bloomies; more sizes at Nordstrom & Saks) (budget option) // Vince boots (8) // necklace // earrings // Lagos bracelets one & two

This gorgeous burgundy double face wool blend overcoat kept me warm and looking chic on a chilly fall day. I love how it pops against the neutral outfit. This coat is currently marked down, plus you get an additional 50% off in cart, which brings it to $149.99, down from $369!

Talbots coat c/o (S) // Madewell bucket bag

Okay, home stretch! I wore this outfit to meet friends for breakfast on Monday.

I grabbed this sweater from the Bloomies sale, since I’m trying to add more interesting sweaters to my fall/winter wardrobe, and this definitely fits the bill. I love the polo collar, the ivory and navy stripes, and the short-but-not-quite-cropped length. It’s pricey, but the quality is nice, and I don’t have anything quite like it.

Velvet by Graham & Spencer stripe sweater (S) ($25 off ever $100) // MOTHER Dazzler at Saks or Bloomies (29) (budget option) // UGG Ultra Mini at Bloomies (Power Points) and Nordstrom (8) // earrings // similar pendant

It was freeeeeezing that day, so I brought out the big guns — my wintriest winter puffer coat and my new UGG Ultra Minis.

Whenever I see myself in UGGs, I find myself singing the song, Am I a man, or a muppet??? (In my head, of course.) Even though my feet seem to take on a life of their own when I wear them, I think these boots are super cute in a comfy-cozy sort of way, and they’re warm and on-trend, so yay!

The North Face Metropolis Puffer Coat at Bloomingdale’s (Power Points) and Nordstrom (M) // similar scarf (30% off) // YSL camera bag (budget option)

And finally, I met a friend for lunch yesterday, and I was feeling tired of all my bootcut and straight leg jeans, so I decided to pull out these PAIGE Leenah wide leg ankle jeans from the #NSale and see what I could do with them. I wore them a lot in the summer with flat slide sandals, but I don’t love them with sneakers, and I wanted to see how they’d look with booties.

I grabbed these Dolce Vita Dee pointed toe booties, which have been sitting in my closet, waiting for such an opportunity. I know I prefer a pointed toe boot wide leg jeans, and I thought this dressier style might work better with these jeans than a Western style like the DV Volli – which is probably what I would have grabbed if these hadn’t been sitting there, begging for a chance to be worn.

I also like that the Dee doesn’t have a super high heel; they don’t feel as “extra” to me as, say, the Aquatalia Luissa, which is the other pair I would have tried.

I was going to do a shorter pullover on top, but then I remembered saying I wanted to try a cardigan with wider leg jeans, inspired by this picture:

photo credit: Nordstrom

So I grabbed my Nordstrom Signature cashmere cardigan and put it over a white tank, and I added the taupe belt to break up the look and coordinate with the sweater and boots.

This is definitely a different look for me, and I know it’s not for everyone, but I think I like it for a change. Feel free to offer feedback… pro or con. I can take it!

Nordstrom Signature cashmere cardigan – on sale! (S) (similar for less)  // white tank (M) // old – PAIGE Leenah wide leg ankle jeans (in stock – similar but not exact/another option – on sale) // Dolce Vita Dee (8.5) – on sale at Macy’s & Bloomies // YSL belt (budget option) // Jenny Bird earrings & necklace

Of course, I couldn’t leave well enough alone, even though I was running late and really didn’t have time to play around without outfits. But then again, that never stopped me before!

This stripe cardigan was sitting out, waiting to be tried on, and I thought it might work better with this jeans and boot combo. Because of the black stripe, I changed into black tank, and I tried it both buttoned and unbuttoned.

Splendid Kendall Stripe Cardigan (S) (on sale in green) // black tank // old – PAIGE Leenah wide leg ankle jeans (in stock – similar but not exact/another option – on sale) // Dolce Vita Dee (8.5) – on sale at Macy’s & Bloomies // YSL belt (budget option) // Jenny Bird earrings & necklace

My first instinct was that the bold black stripe right under my shoulders makes them look broader than they already are, but I don’t hate it when it’s buttoned up. I just think it might look better with a different denim silhouette, and I didn’t want to commit to keeping it without trying it a few other ways.

I also noticed that the same sweater is part of the Bloomingdale’s promo, but in green. The lower contrast stripes might be more flattering on me, so I might order that to compare.

All that to say, I ended up going back to the solid tan Nordstrom Signature sweater!

It was too late to change tanks again, so I wore it with the black, but I like it better with the white… at least with these boots. If I wear a black tank, I would prefer a black boot, but again, there was no time to change again, and that would mean changing belts too, so I just went like this.

It pained my perfectionistic nature to walk out the door, knowing I could have improved the outfit if I’d had a little more time, but at least I know what I want to try next!

Nordstrom Signature cashmere cardigan – on sale! (S) (similar for less)  // black tank // old – PAIGE Leenah wide leg ankle jeans (in stock – similar but not exact/another option – on sale) // Dolce Vita Dee (8.5) – on sale at Macy’s & Bloomies // YSL belt (budget option) // Jenny Bird earrings & necklace

And I believe that’s a wrap! I know, it was a doozie, but it’s fun to play around with some new outfit combinations. I hope it gives you some inspiration to shop your closet and put things together in new ways, or maybe pick up a new item or two that is different than what you already have.

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November 9, 2023
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Casual Outfit-Making Jackets from Nordstrom

** This post is sponsored by Nordstrom.

I realized recently that my fall wardrobe was missing a crucial component. I was feeling frustrated and bored with my clothes when I went to get dressed in the mornings, which makes no sense, considering that we are right here at the start of a new season… and arguably, the best season for fashion!

Treasure & Bond jacket (S) // Nordstrom cashmere (S) // MOTHER denim (29) // similar boots // similar belt // DIFF sunnies // Coach bag // pendant

Normally I can’t wait to start wearing my fall clothes, but this year I was getting cranky every time I tried to put an outfit together. My simple jeans and sweater combos seemed tired, and none of my layering pieces seemed quite right.

I have a few stand-alone sweaters with stripes or collared details that I love, but I was wearing them over and over again and neglecting a large portion of my closet because I couldn’t seem to complete an outfit with my favorite wardrobe basics.

I finally realized that what my fall wardrobe was missing was some fresh outfit-making jackets.

Leather and suede moto jackets were my go-to for many years, but they’re feeling tired to me these days, and it’s getting too chilly for denim and twill. I’m not into blazers, which are very much on trend right now, so I wasn’t quite sure what I was looking for.

I decided to go to the Nordstrom website and look around because they always have a wide selection of styles and price points, and I found exactly what I was looking for! In fact, I found TWO great jackets that I’ve been wearing on repeat ever since they arrived in the mail last week.

This oversized plaid wool blend jacket has the shape of a bomber jacket, but it’s made of a cozy wool/polyester blend. It’s fully lined, so it slides easily on over my sweaters, and it looks great with thermal tops and t-shirts, as well.

Here’s the outfit I was wearing without the jacket, so you can compare. As you can see, there’s nothing wrong with this. A classic camel cashmere crewneck pullover with a great pair of jeans and western-inspired boots is a great outfit base, and some days it’s all I need.

But now, look at the same outfit with the plaid jacket on top. It’s a whole new level of style. I love how the subtle blue in the print pulls in the blue from my jeans, and there’s also a bit of camel in there, as well.

I wore dark brown Western-inspired boots to bookend the look, and to keep the look casual yet elevated. A belt and bag in complementary shades of brown complete the outfit, and now I feel excited to get dressed and go somewhere.

The other jacket I found is also plaid, but it has a cooler color palette and more of a cropped fit. This jacket has a slightly more rustic appeal, almost veering into the shacket category, but I much prefer the cropped styling on this one.

Lucky Brand Plaid Crop Jacket (S) // Madewell tee (M) // AGOLDE Riley (28) // VEJA sneakers (39) // pendant // hoops // similar bag

The fabric on this jacket is slightly thicker and softer than the one above, making it quite cozy and warm. I also like way the subtle gathering on the cuffs of the sleeves creates a subtle feminine detail.

This time, I went a little more casual with my styling. I wore a grey ribbed long sleeve tee under the jacket, with straight ankle jeans and sneakers.

These jeans are the AGOLDE Riley, a slim straight leg style with a vintage aesthetic. The 28″ inseam allows me to wear them with both sneakers and boots, so they’re proving to be quite versatile.

This tee is super soft and stretchy, and I like it a lot, but it runs small. I would recommend sizing up one or even two sizes.

And my VEJA Esplar sneakers probably need no introduction. The low profile and minimalistic styling complements this casual outfit and keeps it current.

These jackets have instantly revived my fall wardrobe and made putting outfits together fun again. In fact, I’ve also got my eye on this olive green quilted corduroy jacket, and maybe even the solid black version of my Treasure & Bond wool bomber, as well.

If you’re in the same boat, I rounded up some more outfit-making jackets below for your shopping inspiration!

Shop Outfit-Making Jackets at Nordstrom

As always, when you shop at Nordstrom, you get their free shipping and free returns. And don’t forget about their BOPUS (Buy Online Pick Up in Store) and contactless curbside pickup options.

And if you aren’t already a Nordy Club member, be sure to sign up so you can start earning points toward Nordstrom Notes when you shop. You also get to enjoy exclusive perks like members-only access to sales, offers, and events — like the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale, which will be here again before we know it!

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November 7, 2023
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2023 Holiday Fashion Trends

As we all know, holiday party season is just around the corner! I have a bunch of holiday looks I’m working on, but first I thought we should talk about the top holiday fashion trends this season.

None of these styles are especially ground-breaking or new for the holidays, but they’re having a moment this year, so this is a great opportunity to lean into the ones that most resonate with you. You may already have a lot of these in your closet, but if you want to pick up a new item or two to freshen up your holiday looks, I included shopping widgets for each trend.

Shimmer and Shine

photo credit: LOFT

Sequins, metallics, sparkly fabrics and bedazzled tops are everywhere this season. Pair them with velvet or satin for a pleasing mix of texture. Sequin earrings, metallic pumps, metallic jeans, and shimmery blouses are all great ways to wear this trend this season. I even found a sequin duster and jewel encrusted shoes.

Luxe Velvet

photo credit: J.Crew

Velvet is always appropriate for winter festivities, but it’s having a major moment in 2023. I love how it adds an element of luxurious sophistication to any outfit. It can be a full-on velvet dress, or just a velvet trim sweater. It can also be an accessory like a velvet bag or shoes, and I also found a few pairs of velvet pants and jeans.

Kitten Heels

photo credit: J.Crew

I’m loving all the lower heel shoe choices out there right now, and pointy toe kitten heels are by far the most popular for dressier events. You can find them in all different materials from metallics to suede, some have embellishments, some are plain, and I also found a few pairs of kitten heel booties that would work for more casual holiday events.

Statement Outerwear

photo credit: Gap Factory

Faux fur coats and teddy jackets are huge this season, as well as long wool coats in bold and bright colors or patterns such as plaid or houndstooth.

Satin

photo credit: Nordstrom

I’m seeing tons of satin dresses, skirts, blouses, and even pants this season. I love the juxtaposition of a cozy, oversized sweater with a satin midi skirt, for example.

Embellishments

photo credit: Evereve

On clothing as well as shoes, we’re seeing lots of bows and sequin buttons and crystal details and other embellishments.

Monochrome

photo credit: Banana Republic

All-white outfits are huge this season, as are monochromatic looks in shades or red or pink or even blue, and you can never go wrong with all black.

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November 6, 2023
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Luxe Beauty Gifts for Her

Happy Monday, friends! I hope you had a good weekend. Ours was rather uneventful, which was just fine by me. Today I have another holiday gift guide ready to share with you, and this one chock full of beauty gifts for the ladies!

one // two // three // four // five // six // seven // eight // nine // ten // eleven // twelve // thirteen // fourteen

I also like to call this, what to gift the woman who has everything. There are some really fun items in here, unique gift sets, and even a beauty-themed advent calendar!

Today is the last day of the Sephora Savings Event, so I included some items from there, as well as a few of my favorite QVC beauty deals and Amazon beauty picks, plus some good finds from Nordstrom and Saks too!

I’m rolling out a new 2023 Holiday Gift Guide every Monday this year, so be sure you’re subscribed to my daily email newsletters so you don’t miss anything!

You can also access all of my gift guides through the link in my Menu (located across the top of my blog on a computer, and in the dropdown menu at the top left of your screen on mobile) if you want to reference them later.

Holiday Gift Guide 2023: Luxe Beauty Gifts for Her

As usual, there are more gift ideas below than we could fit in the graphic, so be sure to scroll all the way down to see everything I found.

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What I Wore Lately
November 1, 2023
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What I Wore Lately Vol. 116

Happy hump day, friends! I’ve got a new What I Wore Lately for you today. This is what I wear in the wild, so to speak… I did my best to link up alternatives that are in stock for the older items I’m wearing.

SIZING NOTES: I’m 5’5″ and I usually wear a small in tops and dresses, a 29 in jeans, and a size 8 shoe. Gifted items are indicated by c/o; everything else I purchased myself.

Two Weeks of Everyday Outfits

I wore this outfit to a ladies’ Bible study a few weeks ago. It’s simple, but you know me. I like simple. I find the combination of washed black jeans with brown suede ballet flats pleasing to the eye, and this cashmere fisherman sweater is so luxe and soft.

I also carried an olive green purse, which incorporates another muted neutral tone to the look, and I wore larger than my normal earrings so it wouldn’t look so plain.

Jenni Kayne sweater (S) (budget option) // Fidelity Cher (option) // Marc Fisher flats (8) // J.Crew earrings // similar bag (option)

I toyed with wearing my green quilted vest for another element of interest, and I like it with the ivory sweater and washed black denim, but I felt like it was too bulky and rugged on top for the ladylike ballet flats. I wasn’t in the mood to wear boots, so I went without the jacket and added the olive green bag.

sweater (S) (option) // J.Crew vest (S) // Fidelity Cher (option) // ballet flats (8) // earrings

I threw on my beige trench before I left the house, to make the outfit look a little more complete. Plus, it was a chilly day.

similar trench // sweater (S) (option) // Fidelity Cher (option) // J.Crew earrings // similar bag (option)

I wore this athleisure look to a PT appointment and to work from home on a weekday.

Vuori Halo Jacket c/o (S) // Zella top (S) // Vuori joggers c/o (M) // On Cloud sneakers (9) // similar pendant // Lagos earrings

It must have warmed up a bit because I wore this t-shirt and jeans for a while the next morning.

Frame tee in Espresso (XS) // similar Frame denim (29) // Marc Fisher flats (8) // similar belt // Lagos earrings // similar pendant // VE bracelet

And then I changed to take one of my friends out to lunch for her birthday. FYI, this blouse is 60% off at Nordstrom Rack and almost fully stocked. I have more details on this outfit in this post.

Vince blouse (S) (option) // PAIGE denim (29) (option) // taupe booties (8) // similar necklace // earrings // sunnies (option)

This was a casual day working from home, and this sweater is an old Naadam favorite. I really wish they would bring it back. It has the perfect proportions for wearing with modern denim styles.

old Naadam sweater (S) // MOTHER Dazzler (29) (budget option) // Marc Fisher flats (8) // Lagos earrings

I wore this to an early morning Pilates class. Wow, was my hair ever a mess!

Vuori Halo Jacket c/o (S) // Vuori Energy Top c/o (S) // Vuori Clean Elevation Legging (M) (sale option) // On Cloud sneakers (9)

That night, Paul and I went out to dinner and then to watch my daughter perform at a marching band cavalcade. Since we were going to dinner first, I didn’t really want to wear sneakers, so I pulled out these Aquatalia booties from last year’s #NSale.

I can walk easily in them (it’s usually a long walk from parking to the stadium at these cavalcades) and they’re also warmer than sneakers. I found a similar pair on sale right now at Nordstrom Rack.

Everlane Boxy Cashmere Crew (S) // MOTHER Dazzler (29) (budget option) // similar Aquatalia boots (57% off!) // J.Crew earrings

I brought a long puffer coat along for the cavalcade, but I wanted to look a little more elevated for dinner, so I wore my beige trench.

Everlane Boxy Cashmere Crew (S) // MOTHER Dazzler (29) (budget option) // similar Aquatalia boots // similar trench // Coach bucket bag // J.Crew earrings

The next day was a Sunday, and we attended a Fall Fest in the afternoon after church, so I wore a puffer jacket over a fisherman sweater with the same straight ankle jeans.

I wore leather Chelsea boots, thinking they would be easy to walk in and warmer than sneakers. They turned out to be a good choice, because the ground was muddy in spots, and the hard leather upper and rubber soles cleaned up easily.

Gap puffer vest (S) // Jenni Kayne sweater (S) (budget option) // MOTHER Dazzler (29) (budget option) // Steve Madden boots (8) // Jenny Bird earrings

This Vuori Halo jacket is getting quite the workout this month! This was another day with a PT appointment; otherwise, I just worked from home.

Vuori Halo Jacket c/o (S) // Zella tee (S) // Vuori joggers c/o (M) // On Cloud sneakers (9) // Lagos earrings

I had a photo shoot the next day, and I kept this outfit on afterwards. I wanted some photos of ballet flats with straight leg jeans, and I think this pairing works, but I wonder if I should have sized down in the jeans.

Rails cardigan (S) (on sale at Neimans & Saks) (budget option) // AG Mari straight ankle jeans (30) // Marc Fisher ballet flats (8) // Lagos earrings // similar necklace

I had my upstairs carpets cleaned one day last week, and I just wore my workout clothes until it was time to go to an event at the high school that evening. I couldn’t wear shoes on the wet carpet, so I took this old-school top down selfie in my kitchen.

This lightweight Z Supply puffer jacket is from Evereve last year, and I’ve worn it a few times lately. It’s really nice for fall outdoor activities when it’s not terribly cold out, but you want a buffer from the wind.

Caslon henley (M) // similar Frame denim (29) // similar jacket // P448 sneakers (39) // Gucci crossbody (option) (option) (option) // Lagos earrings // similar necklace

Friday night was Senior Parents Night, and I wanted to look polished and put together but still fairly casual.

I probably should have worn school colors, but I don’t have much red and white other than school-branded sweatshirts that make me feel schlumpy. I knew we’d be in photos, so I decided to wear something I love and feel good in, and I landed on this. It was a warm night, thankfully!

KUT from the Kloth jacket (S) (more sizes) // The Reset tank (S) // MOTHER denim (29) // Dolce Vita boots (8) // similar belt // Lagos earrings // Madewell necklace

This is the only photo we got. I wish I’d taken time to add a bracelet, but I was in a rush, and it slipped my mind. Clearly, Paul didn’t concern himself with wearing school colors either.

And in case you’re wondering, my daughter is not in a traditional marching uniform because she’s in the front ensemble, and they always come up with an outfit that complements the theme of the show.

I wore this casual outfit around the house and to run errands on Saturday, before changing to go to the cavalcade that night.

Splendid tee (M) // similar FRAME denim (29) // P448 sneakers (39) // similar earrings

We thought it might get cold that night, so I changed into a long sleeve top, and I brought a school-branded sweatshirt to wear on top in case I needed it.

Caslon henley (M) // similar Frame denim (29) // P448 sneakers (39) // Gucci crossbody (option) (option) (option) // Lagos earrings // similar necklace

And that brings us to last Sunday! It was raining, again… I think it has rained every Sunday but one for the past three  months. The temperatures were also dropping on Sunday, but the temperature was still mild that morning, so I took the opportunity to wear this short-sleeve cashmere sweater from an #NSale a couple years back.

This peacock color is hard to pair with blue jeans. It looks best with lighter washes, but I didn’t want to go that route to church this week, so I pulled out these PAIGE Claudine ankle flares in the off-black wash.

And I wanted to wear shoes that could hold up to the rain but still look elevated, so I wore my Vince Hilda booties. They’re splurgy, but I managed to snag mine on sale.

old Vince sweater // PAIGE denim (29) // Vince booties (8) (also at Nordstrom) // similar belt // Yurman earrings & bracelet // not shown: taupe crossbody (budget option)

I toyed with adding a necklace, since the outfit is so plain, but I don’t love how it looks with the tight crewneck top, so I ended up going without and adding more of a statement bracelet and larger earring.

Still, I really didn’t love the outfit. I like simple, but it felt too simple.

old Vince sweater // PAIGE denim (29) // Vince booties (8) (also at Nordstrom) // similar belt // Yurman earrings & bracelet // similar necklace

I realized as I was getting dressed that I don’t have any dressier jackets to complete my church and date night looks. Layering is what makes outfits look more stylish and interesting, and I have denim and twill jackets that I like, but nothing in leather or suede. I used to wear a lot of suede and leather moto jackets, but those are feeling tired to me now. Bomber jackets seem more casual than what I need, and I don’t love blazers, so I’m feeling sort of at a loss and bored with my dressier outfits.

I wore my beige trench coat again, but I’d like to have some more elevated jackets that I can keep on inside. I will keep an eye out and see what I can find!

I also felt like my black boots and off-black jeans looked kind of boring together, so when I got back home that afternoon, I tried a few brown options.

old Vince sweater // PAIGE denim (29) // similar Dolce Vita western booties (8) // similar belt

The Western style boots seemed too rugged for the rest of the look, and the brown belt didn’t really look right to me either, so then I tried this dressier style. This is the Truffle Suede, and I really like these, but they run small. I’ve re-ordered in the 8.5.

I changed to a lighter belt, in more of a taupe, but it’s way too light for this. This outfit is getting worse, not better… LOL!

old Vince sweater // PAIGE denim (29) // Dolce Vita pointed toe booties (8) // similar belt

I never did really land on a combination that made me happy, but I’ll work on it.

Okay, enough on that! I had an early morning Pilates class on Monday, so I threw this on, and I ended up wearing it all day to work from home.

I changed to go to a meeting at the high school that night. When I went into my closet to look at my options, I landed on this black shaker knit v-neck sweater that I’ve always loved but haven’t worn yet this season. It’s Vince, and I snagged it on a really good sale a few years ago.

I decided I was sick of my straight ankle jeans, so I grabbed my MOHTER Weekender flares, and then I started looking at my shoe choices.

In an attempt to keep it casual and add another color to the mix, I tried my Aquatalia booties, but this didn’t look right to me. I think it might work if I had lighter hair, but with the black sweater and my dark hair on top of the lighter jeans and lighter boots, I felt like I looked unbalanced.

old Vince sweater (option) // MOTHER denim (29) // similar Aquatalia boots // Jenny Bird necklace & earrings

So I grabbed a pair of black boots and decided to call it done. It was a casual school meeting on a weekday evening, and I didn’t want to overdo it anyway.

I added the mixed metal station necklace for something a little different.

old Vince sweater (option) // MOTHER denim (29) // Marc Fisher boots (8) // Jenny Bird necklace & earrings

And then this is what I wore to Bible Study yesterday. I love this Rails sweater, but it’s longer than what I normally wear, so I paired it with full length bootcut jeans and lug sole boots to create a better vertical balance.

Rails sweater (S) // PAIGE denim (29) (option) // Paul Green boots // Jenny Bird earrings

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October 31, 2023
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Two Classic Holiday Outfits with Talbots

** This post is sponsored by Talbots. 

The holidays are fast approaching, and the requests are already rolling in for holiday outfit inspiration. Today I’m partnering with Talbots to share two classic festive looks for the upcoming holiday party season.

Woven Sleeve V-Neck Pullover (S) // Sparkle Knit Wide Leg Pants (6) // Sylvie Bow Kitten Heel Pumps (8) // Snowflake Stud Earrings // not pictured: embellished velvet clutch

The first outfit features this gorgeous Woven Sleeve V-Neck Pullover. Mixed media styles are having a moment right now, and I love how this top combines the comfort of a sweater with the elegance of a blouse. It almost looks like a layered look.

This festive top pairs perfectly with their Sparkle Knit Wide Leg Pants, which are right on trend, and I tucked the blouse in an attempt to highlight my waist and keep the proportions of the outfit in check.

Because they’re a knit fabric, these pants are very comfortable, and I love the sleek hidden side-zip closure. Both the top and pants run true to size, or size down if in between. I’m wearing the small and the size 6, respectively.

These satin kitten heel pumps with the subtle bow detail also play into the current trends, and I love the low heel for comfort and walkability. They have a memory foam footbed, and they run true to size.

I accessorized this modern classic holiday look with sterling silver snowflake studs for some sparkle and shine near my face, and I carried a black leather clutch, although I wish I’d thought to grab this festive rhinestone embellished velvet clutch. It would be the perfect final touch.

I love how this outfit is both comfortable and chic, and it leans into the current trends in a sophisticated way.

This lace dress is another nice option for the holidays and beyond. It’s definitely something you could wear year ’round, for a variety of events.

It’s the perfect just-above-the-knee length, and the back has a really pretty cut-out detail. It’s fully lined with a scalloped hemline, and I feel like it runs a bit big. I’m in the size 6, and it’s still a little roomy.

This time, I wore a pair of suede slingback kitten heels with a sparkly embellished bow on the toe.

I really like this slingback style; I feel like they’re a little more interesting than the plainer satin pumps, and the sparkly bow adds some bling to the otherwise black outfit.

I always get asked about what to wear over a sleeveless dress for a winter event, and this velvet trim shrug is the perfect solution.

I’m so glad to see shrugs and short cardigans coming back into vogue, and this actually offers a good bit of warmth, as I discovered when I removed it to take pictures of the dress on its own. Brrr….

The velvet trim keeps it looking holiday-appropriate, and the 3/4-length sleeves allow you to showcase any arm candy, perhaps this crystal stretch bracelet.

I meant to wear the snowflake earrings with this outfit, as well, and I also think that velvet clutch would make the perfect finishing touch to this classic holiday look.

Lace A-Line Dress (6) // Erica Slingback Kitten Heel Pumps (8) // Velvet Trim Shrug (S) // not pictured: embellished velvet clutch

From holiday parties to cozy gatherings and everything in between, Talbots has so many options to make getting dressed for your seasonal events effortlessly chic in their modern classic style.

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October 25, 2023
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Cozy Gifts from Athleta

** This post is sponsored by Athleta.

It’s not too early to think about holiday gifting, and one of my favorite gifts to give and get is cozy loungewear and activewear. Athleta has long been a trusted source for easy transition pieces that can take you from workout, to work, to weekend, and I’ve rounded up a bunch of my top gift ideas for you today.

Inlet Vest (S) // Cozy Karma Twist Neck Sweatshirt (S) // Balance Flare Pant (S)

The Athleta pieces I have in my closet have lasted for years, so it’s a brand you can feel good about gifting to any of your loved ones, or treating yourself, if you’re so inclined!

I purchased this Inlet Vest last year, and it quickly became my go-to for wearing over sweatshirts and other base layers when I’m walking the dog or exercising outdoors in the fall and on milder winter days. It’s lightweight and breathable, and it has such a flattering silhouette.

Two zip pockets securely stash your essentials, and I love the stretchy panels on the sides for extra comfort and mobility.

Underneath, I’m wearing the Cozy Karma Twist Neck Sweatshirt, which totally lives up to its name. It is sooo cozy.

It has a super soft plush interior for extra warmth, and I appreciate the generous sleeve length with thumbholes to keep them in place as you move about.

It also has easy-access stash pockets, and it’s cut a little longer in the back than the front, to cover your assets, as they like to say!

I love this bold shade of red they call Clover Berry, and it comes in a bunch of other great colors and neutrals, as well.

Not only is this piece perfect for walking my sweet Savannah, it’s a cozy yet elevated top I can wear when I’m working from home or running casual errands in the fall and winter. Oh, and they also have a hoodie version, as well!

Speaking of cozy yet elevated activewear essentials, I’ve been wearing the Balance Flare Pants on repeat ever since they arrived last week.

They have a flattering flare leg, and the super-soft brushed nirvana fabric is extra cozy, but they aren’t stiff or too thick to move with you.

They’re a perfect medium weight to wear both indoors and out, and the comfortable, wide waistband doesn’t bind or constrict. I also like how the external front pockets lay flat and don’t create any extra bulk.

These pants run true to size; I’m in the regular size small. I could have maybe sized up for a little more wiggle room, but they’re perfectly comfortable, as-is. In fact, I am wearing them right now, as I type! They also come in petite and tall sizes, for the ladies who need that.

Athleta has so many more great cozy gift ideas for the women and girls on your list, so I rounded up a bunch of my favorites below.

Plus, If you’re an Icon or Enthusiast Rewards member, be on the lookout come 11/10 – 11/12. You’ll have first access to Athleta’s Black Friday Box Offer! (Find out more about Athleta Reward Member Benefits HERE.)

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