So here’s a new series I just came up with: Evolution of an Outfit.
You all seemed to like how I showed the various outfits I tried before landing on one to wear to the mall at the end of last week’s daily outfit roundup, so I thought I’d start sharing that process from time to time in a dedicated post.
We went out to dinner last weekend with a group of couples to celebrate my friend’s 40th birthday, and I wanted to wear something casual but also a little special.
Because it was the weekend before Christmas, I wanted to look festive, but I didn’t want to go overboard because it wasn’t a super dressy venue. And one final factor worth noting, it was friggin’ cold outside.
Sorry, Mom! (I’m 47 years old, and she still reprimands me when I say friggin’… haha!)
Normally I build my outfits around my top, but this time I started on the bottom. Because it was cold and I wanted to wear heels, I decided to wear black suede OTK boots over blue jeans.
I often wear black jeans when I go out in the winter, but I went with these medium wash blue jeans to tone down the high heeled boots, and because I like the contrast of black OTK boots on blue jeans.
After that was decided, it was just a matter of choosing a top and accessories.
I had picked up this metallic ribbed sweater with New Year’s Eve in mind, but it also seemed like a good choice for this event.
The metallic shimmer makes it festive, and the open neck is a little sexy for date night, but it’s still casual enough to work for the venue, and it’s a sweater so I’d be warm. It seemed to check all the boxes.
It also looks great with the statement earrings I wanted to wear. (Mine are from last year, but this pair in the crystal color is similar.)
This sweater had been my plan all along, so I threw it on with the jeans and boots and took a few pictures to see how it came together.
It’s okay, but it’s kind of predictable… and the sweater is a little long and bulky.
I questioned if it was too safe.
I tried the front tuck, which is how I styled it when I shared my NYE outfit last week, but front-tucking a sweater always seems so try-hard for real life.
And I think it looks weird from the side…
So I compared it to how it looks untucked from the side, but I don’t love it here either.
You can really see the extra volume from this angle, but then again, it doesn’t look like a bathroom accident either…
I decided to table this sweater and try a few other options before making a final decision.
This pink blouse was my backup plan. It’s been hanging in my closet with tags on for over a month, waiting for just this sort of occasion.
It’s a little dressier than what I typically wear, but I liked the idea of getting out of my sweater rut, and I felt like the jeans kept it casual enough for the venue.
I was a little worried about being cold, but I could wear a warm coat. I have that textured faux fur jacket from the #NSale that I was hoping to wear.
The thing was, once I had it all on together, I wasn’t loving it. While I like the neckline and the color, I’m not sure it’s very flattering.
Left untucked, it seems to add some visual weight on top. Even though it’s not necessarily too long for the overall proportions of the outfit, it just doesn’t have a lot of shape through the waist area.
You can really see what I mean in this front-on shot…
So I tried a front-tuck. This is better, except…
I hate the side view.
The front tuck already looks kind of doofus from the side, but it’s accentuated with this top because the back is already longer than the front. Once you tuck the front, it really looks weird.
Plus, the blouson sleeves seemed a bit much.
I went back and forth and took approximately 162 pictures from different angles, and I finally decided to bag it.
I almost just went back to the ivory sweater, but then I decided to give this leopard sweater a try first. I love leopard and red together, so I added this red bag to the mix.
The fit and proportions are on point, but it’s a lot of leopard. I really prefer this sweater with a black moto jacket on top — both to cover up some of the leopard, and also because this outfit seems to need a completer piece.
But it was too cold for a thin sweater and a leather jacket. I knew I needed a heavier coat, and I just couldn’t get excited about this outfit as-is.
Even if I switched to black jeans, which I would definitely prefer to the blue jeans with this sweater, I knew I’d want that leather jacket to complete the look.
At this point, I was pretty sure I was going back to the metallic ribbed sweater, but I wanted to try one more thing.
This cashmere ribbed scoop sweater had just arrived from Naadam. There’s no doubt that it’s far more luxurious than any of the other options, and the fitted style and scoop neck is more flattering in theory than any of my other options.
But when I tried it on after it arrived, it seemed too tight and low cut for my comfort level. I was actually planning to send it back.
Since nothing else was working out quite the way I’d hoped, I decided to give it another shot with the whole ensemble.
As I’m looking back through these pictures, I am kicking myself for not wearing this. In fact, I ended up wearing this sweater with jeans and pumps to dinner with my family on Christmas Eve.
But in that moment, it felt very tight, and my chest looked very large, and I just didn’t feel comfortable wearing it out with our friends to eat a big dinner.
So after all that, I went back to the original metallic ribbed sweater.
I know, I know… basically, I already showed you the final result in the first look. It’s sort of anticlimactic, isn’t it?
I almost re-wrote the post and waited to the end of this post to share those pictures, but then I decided, this is real life, and sometimes we end up wearing the first thing we tried on.
So yeah, this outfit evolution came full circle!
I have a feeling some of you are going to tell me I should have worn the pink blouse untucked, and maybe you’re right. It’s a more striking outfit.
Or the grey Naadam sweater is gorgeous and form-fitting, so a nice choice for a date night.
But while the outfit I ended up wearing is on the safer side, I felt comfortable and pretty and not at all self-conscious, as I might have in one of the other options, and there’s something to be said for that.
Plus, my faux fur coat was perfect with it.
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I hope you liked this first evolution of an outfit post. You’ll have to let me know if you’d like me to do more of these.
Enjoy the rest of your weekend!
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93 thoughts on “Evolution of an Outfit: Winter Date Night”
Loved the final outfit and how the fur coat goes perfectly! Luv this post!
I think you’ve really hit on a unique niche here! I loved looking at the process of putting a look together…and I think it’s relatable for every woman. I love what you ended up wearing (usually I will end up with my first choice, too) and you looked beautiful! I look forward to more of these types of posts. Merry Christmas!
ENJOY your family today!!!! The older I get, the more I go for comfort ❤️
I really enjoyed the struggle you had. 😀 I thought I was the only one going though this getting dressed. Loved it …made me feel better.
So great to see you share the process that we ALL go through some days! You looked great in your final choice. I personally loved the gray sweater combo a lot! . Seemed a touch more “party-ish” bring a little thinner and having the lower cut v-neck.
I’m wondering if the length of sweaters and tops will start getting shorter now that we’re all wearing higher rise pants and jeans. I do like the casual look of the front tuck, but agree with you that mire often than not, it looks wonky from the side view. 🥴 I’m ready to start tucking in my entire shirt or top.
I agree about the grey. I guess with the OTK boots, and the tight low-cut sweater, it all seemed a bit much. I like it better with the pumps.
Lol! It’s nice to know that even you, as a fashion blogger, sometimes struggle with the perfect outfit for an event! I figured you would have a whole bunch of “go to outfits” for every occasion. Thanks for keeping it real!
This was my life today…on my way to a baby shower. Needed to take into account the temps for the day, the degree of “casual-ness” vs dressing nice, etc, etc. All the things that end up driving me crazy. The front tuck, I think works for mid day running errands, but not so much for a nicer event. I ALWAYS get tripped up when I get to the shoes. Boy, can they ever make all the difference. Ended up with my first choice also, black knit dress with black tights and black knee high boots. Then heavy on the bracelets.
Agree with all of the other comments – LOVED this post and so reassuring to know that you go through this as well…especially the front tuck “mental debate”! Please do more of these 🙂
I love this post! I love seeing your different options and why you decided to “nix” them. I’m glad I’m not the only one who tries on five different things before heading out the door!
Loved this post. It’s kind of nice to know that even a fashion blogger has moments of indecisiveness! I go through this every time I leave the house!
Love this post! Love what u ended up wearing!
Great post! I am glad I am not the only one who goes through this! I agree with your final outfit decision. It looked great.
That was a fun post. Yes do more of those.
It’s interesting to see how the outfit came together and I think you picked a cosy and comfortable outfit for dinner 🙂
Hope you had a merry Christmas 🙂 We had a great time with family and so much good food!
I think your final/first choice hit the spot. The sweater is very pretty and cosy but glam enough for dinner out. The OTK boots always ramp up an outfit to give a certain ‘je ne sais quoi’. hope you had a fun evening!
Best wishes Jane
I like how you summed it up – that’s what I was going for!
I love this post! Real life! And I really like the outfit you ended up wearing. Love the sweater untucked and with the coat. The evolution of an outfit will make a great series.
I think the outfit you ended up with was the best choice. I wonder, however, why you chose to wear no necklace? To me, this screamed for a long necklace. Maybe your David Yurman piece that you’ve worn before. But the addition of the coat really completed it. I would love to see you do this evolution of an outfit more often! Nice to know us non blogger peeps aren’t the only ones that can’t decide what to wear!
I know it’s kind of plain without the necklace, but I am sort of into that minimalist vibe right now, and I really wanted to wear those earrings. I didn’t have a necklace that didn’t compete with them or look mismatched. (The David Yurman piece is gorgeous, but I wanted a bigger statement, so I went with the earrings instead.)
Thank you for this evolution of an outfit. I go through this all the time and I drive myself crazy!!!! I always wonder if I’m the only one. I’m in agreement, your first choice was the best and I adore your coat.
I love this type of post! I often discard items as I’m getting ready to go out because I just don’t seem to have it right. I’m so glad to see that you do the same. I always enjoy reading your thought processes when creating an outfit. Thank you!
You were right! It’s fun, informative AND reassuring to see how this all works for you irl.
I always think you know JUST the thing to wear, but like any of the rest of us, even though you may have all the pieces…you rethink how they work together.
Loved all the choices, but with the coat, that sweater was a beautiful choice!
Fun post, Jo-Lynne!
I’m so glad I’m not the only one that goes through several reiterations when going out. I like the outfit you settled on. You look so cozy, snuggly in that faux fur.
I really like the idea of the evolution of an outfit. I found this post very helpful, as it reminded me that I too can take photos to evaluate an outfit. Thanks for doing this 🙂